Although men can learn how to please women through pornographic films, those who have watched such films know that even by watching a woman tremble and moan in pleasure without being touched, men can also experience pleasurable emotions. This is part of the male nature of wanting to satisfy a woman to affirm their masculinity.

We often expect men to guide us into the world of sex, 'because they want it more, because they have seen more films.' But this is a mistaken notion, especially because the more these films are watched, the less practical experience these men have and the less they truly understand a woman's body.

Most pornographic films are simply performances, an industry designed to meet male needs. It is quite disconnected from reality.

In recent years, pornographic films aimed at women have also been produced. If you observe carefully, you'll notice that films from a male perspective and female-oriented films approach sex very differently. Male films focus on exaggeratedly large genitals, loud screams, and vigorous movements. Female films, however, focus on kissing, caressing, and soft, rhythmic movements. Perhaps we don't want, or we are embarrassed, to study the needs of the other, but we really just need to put aside a little of our pride.

After all, even though men try to please women, it's their hands that touch you, and the nerves are in your body, not theirs. No matter how much experience they have, how could they really know what you like? Every woman is different, and that's something I learned from watching the series 'Masters of Sex,' where it is shown that women do not need a man to reach orgasm. Most men also misunderstand that female orgasm is achieved through intercourse. But, in fact, some women can achieve orgasm simply 'by brushing their teeth.'